Each year I make mental notes of important days to remember. Some good like the first night Matt and I officially began dating.
11.22.98
And of course the day we legally vowed to be together and support each other through this thing called life.
9.14.02
Tomorrow is a somber day to remember. Our first son lost at 20 weeks- Eli Mathew
2.10.07
The day Matt lost his advisor, do-it-yourself-expert, and supporter- his Dad. Larry Collins.
2.20.06
February is not a sad month, just a month to remember. I never really thanked Elaine, Matt's mom and my parents for remembering us in the past 2 years through both losses. Elaine honored the babies by adding a light during the Loving Lights Ceremony at Johnson Memorial Hospital where Matt was born in Franklin, Indiana. My parents have purchased two bricks with the babies names inscribed at the new Children's Museum in
Terre Haute. Sometimes I too easily forget they lost something those days too. The hope of being a grandparent. For my parents it will be this May when my brother and his wife will be expecting a little girl. I'm very excited to be an aunt.